Thursday, 9 July 2026

Cousins, Dave "Waiting for Gonzo"

Cousins, Dave "Waiting for Gonzo" - 2013

A friend lent me two books by this author. This one and "15 Days without a Head". 

Since the other one is older, I read that one first. There, I wrote:

"This is another one that I probably would never have picked up, it looks too un-adult to me. But: It is a brilliant book."

And I can say the same for this one. After a slow start where I thought this is not going to be the same, I really got into it after a couple of chapters. Oz is a boy, as much as you can imagine any boy, he is very typical. (I can judge, I have three younger brothers and two sons.) He steps from one Fettnäpfchen (no English word like that available but it means gaffe/social blunder) into the next, nothing seems to go right for him. But he has his heart in the right place and is as loveable as most boys are.

It tells us all about friendship and about the special bond siblings have, even if they seem to fight all the time.

Definitely a great book to read.

From the back cover:

"Things could be going better for Oz. He's just moved miles from all his friends. A prank at his new school puts him in the crosshairs of 'Psycho' Isobel Skinner, a bully who also happens to be his mum's new best friend. And he's driven off the only other kid who will have anything to do with him: a Tolkien-obsessed boy in desperate need of a decent playlist.

With his life careening out of control, Oz sets about making things right. But when he stumbles on his sister's game-changing secret, Oz is left wondering if he can ever get his old life back ... or if he's stuck forever in this craziness.

Comic and heartwarming, Waiting for Gonzo is about discovering when to play the cards you're dealt and when to shuffle the deck and deal your own hand."

Cousins, Dave "15 Days without a Head"

Cousins, Dave "15 Days without a Head" - 2012

Another book lent by a friend. This is another one that I probably would never have picked up, it looks too un-adult to me. But: It is a brilliant book. Heart-wrenching but beautiful. An alcoholic mother is so depressed that she leaves her teenage son and his six year old brother alone. No address, nobody who would look after them, no money, nothing.

I am not sure whether I could like the mother or the little brother. Laurence, the poor guy, first has to take care of an alcoholic mother as well as a little brother who is anything but easy. When the mother disappears, he doesn't want them to end up in different care facilities, so he pretends everything is alright in the family.

As I said, people like the mother make me mad! She has two children but doesn't look after them (already while she's there). No matter what an excuse you have, no matter how depressed you are, you don't leave your children. What if Laurence had been one of those kids who can't take any responsibility, either? Quite believable with a mother like that. Luckily he isn't. I do feel sorry for him and all those kids in similar situations. The mother doesn't deserve them. That's my opinion and I'm sticking to it.

There were quite a few funny scenes in the book which made it bearable at times. Just as an example, the diary gives the days of the week as follows:

Tuesday, Whensday, Blursday, Lieday, Thataway, Someday, Meanday, Duesday, Endsday, Thisday, Frightday, Tattersday, Slumday, Noneday, Doomsday, Madnesday, Today

Book Description:

"Fifteen-year-old Laurence Roach just wants a normal life, but it's not easy when your mum is a depressed alcoholic, and your six-year-old brother thinks he's a dog.

When Mum fails to come home one night, Laurence tells nobody, terrified he and his brother will be taken into care if anyone finds out. Instead, he attempts to keep up the pretence that Mum is still around: dressing up in her clothes to trick the neighbours and spinning an increasingly complicated tangle of lies. After two weeks on their own, running out of food and money, and with suspicious adults closing in, Laurence finally discovers what happened to his mother. And that's when the trouble really starts . . .

A compelling thriller filled with some hilarious and surreal moments. Fifteen Days Without a Head is a tender, honest story about family, forgiveness and hope."

Monday, 6 July 2026

Barrie, J.M. "Peter Pan"

Barrie, J.M. "Peter Pan" - 1904

The book description starts with Peter Pan and his "irritable fairy friend". That could be said about the whole book. While I read this, I thought, yes, it's another children's book, mainly for boys and I am getting too old for these stories. However, in the German description, they say it was originally written for adults.

Well, not my thing. They also compare it with "Alice in Wonderland". And I have to add that these two were my least favourites as Disney movies. And, if I remember it well, my kids weren't too fond of them, either. The only thing I like about the film is the crocodile. LOL

So, why did I not like this? I'm not much into fantasy and this is fantasy for me. I also don't like it when children are portrayed as the biggest heroes, they know everything better than adults. I didn't like that when I was a child, I don't like it now.

But some of the book club members really liked it, so it was a success in the group. Here are some comments:

"I enjoyed the book because of the language and because it was a light summer read, and am able to turn off my critical brain to just enjoy stories for what they are.

I was delighted that the book really divided the group on many agreeing with Marianne, about the book and about Peter. This made for a really good discussion much beyond what we had thought possible before when we chose the book. It was originally suggested because there had been some controversial studies on Peter Pan as a character, so maybe this shouldn't have been a surprise. 

While a few members really enjoyed the novel for its imagination, humour, and writing style, others also found parts of it engaging even if they did not fully connect with the story. Overall opinions were divided. Some members gave it fairly low ratings, with others falling somewhere in the middle. Some struggled with the episodic structure and never felt the novel developed a clear overarching plot, perhaps reflecting the book's origins in stories Barrie improvised for family friends' children. Others simply found the fantasy difficult to engage with and felt that Peter and Tinker Bell were more irritating than endearing.

One of our longest discussions centered on Peter himself. Rather than seeing him as a charming hero, many of us were struck by his darker qualities: his selfishness, emotional immaturity, forgetfulness, and inability to form lasting relationships. This led to a conversation about how some of these traits can also be recognised in people we encounter in real life and even in certain public figures.

Many members were also surprised by how brutal and uncompromising the novel could be, especially considering its reputation as a children's classic. We first explored what Neverland might represent before talking about Captain Hook and the significance of the pirates in the story. We discussed why pirates held such a strong appeal for readers of Barrie's time, ideas of loyalty to the Crown, and how these themes might have been understood when the book was first published.

The portrayal of women and children in the novel came up, especially how much they reflected the values of the time. The parents, especially the father, were seen as exaggerated caricatures, although there was also some discussion about whether this reflects British upper-middle-class attitudes of the time. It was also mentioned that dogs sometimes had a similar 'nanny' role with children in real life, which adds another layer to Nana’s character.

We also talked about Barrie's own life and its influence on the novel. We discussed the death of his older brother when Barrie was six years old, which may have influenced his writing and his ideas about eternal childhood. We also discussed why he wrote Peter Pan in the first place, including whether it was meant as satire aimed at adults. Many of the adventures also originated as stories he improvised for family friends' children, which may help explain why the novel feels so episodic.

Whether members enjoyed the novel or not, there was broad agreement that Peter Pan is far more complex than its reputation suggests. Most of us came into the discussion expecting a fairly straightforward fantasy story, but we ended up discussing far more topics than we had expected, from Peter's personality and Barrie's own life to pirates, symbolism, and the society in which the novel was written.

As we often do in our discussions, we also looked for connections to other books we have read. This time our conversation brought up Alice's Adventures in Wonderland, which we have previously read together, as well as Astrid Lindgren's children's books and Treasure Island."

Thanks to Karin, our group leader, for this report.

And another comment:

"What a pleasure to reread Peter Pan, a book which has followed me all my life. It has taken me through the love of adventure in my childhood, the dawning of second wave feminism in my adolescence, the later growing Canadian awareness of racism against indigenous peoples, the enchantment of my own children , and lately, insight into the characters of those who unduly influence so much of the world. It has always been a challenge for me to embrace the cultural contradictions in this well-loved book that grew up with me even if Peter didn't. Now my book is falling apart, but it continues to reveal. This latest reading showed me an appreciation of Barrie's nuanced comments and attitudes. I think he had a much deeper understanding of prejudices and cultural stereotypes than I had realized."

Lately, I have not been very pleased with our online book club reads, I hope this is going to improve soon. I know our group choses different kind of books from other book clubs but that is the attraction of it, I have found a few interesting ones that I would never have come across without this group.

From the back cover:

"From the moment when Peter Pan and his irritable fairy friend Tinker Bell fly in through the nursery window, the story casts a magic spell. The Darling children are carried away to the Neverland where they meet the Lost Boys, watch shy mermaids playing in the blue lagoon and encounter Capain Hook and his wicked pirate band...

Peter Pan is one of the most popular of all children’s classics.  It blends autobiography, fancy, Oedipal myth and fantasy so satisfyingly that, like Alice in Wonderland, its child’s world appeals and intrigues on many levels."

Saturday, 4 July 2026

Six Degrees of Separation ~ Yesteryear

 Caro Claire Burke
"Yesteryear" - 2026
#6Degrees of Separation:

#6Degrees is a monthly link-up hosted by Kate at
Books Are My Favourite and Best. I love the idea. Thank you, Kate. See more about this challenge, its history, further books and how I found this here

I have heard of the book, it seems to be one of the books that everyone is supposed to read this year. I doubt that will be the fact in my case, I don't think this is my kind of literature.

So, here is the description:

"A traditional American woman, a 'tradwife' influencer, suddenly awakens in the brutal reality of 1855—where she must unravel whether this living nightmare is an elaborate hoax, a twisted reality show, or something far more sinister in this sensational debut novel.

My name was Natalie Heller Mills, and I was perfect at being alive.

Natalie lives a traditional lifestyle. Her charming farmhouse is rustic, her husband a handsome cowboy, her six children each more delightful than the last. So what if there are nannies and producers behind the scenes, her kitchen hiding industrial-grade fridges and ovens, her husband the heir to a political dynasty? What Natalie’s followers—all 8 million of them—don’t know won’t hurt them. And The Angry Women? The privileged, Ivy League, coastal elite haters who call her an antifeminist iconoclast? They’re sick with jealousy. Because Natalie isn’t simply living the good life, she’s living the ideal—and just so happens to be building an empire from it.

Until one morning she wakes up in a life that isn’t hers. Her home, her husband, her children—they’re all familiar, but something’s off. Her kitchen is warmed by a sputtering fire rather than electricity, her children are dirty and strange, and her soft-handed husband is suddenly a competent farmer. Just yesterday Natalie was curating photos of homemade jam for her Instagram, and now she’s expected to haul firewood and handwash clothes until her fingers bleed. Has she become the unwitting star of a ruthless reality show? Could it really be time travel? Is she being tested by God? By Satan? When Natalie suffers a brutal injury in the woods, she realizes two things: This is not her beautiful life, and she must escape by any means possible.

A gripping, electrifying novel that is as darkly funny as it is frightening, Yesteryear is a gimlet-eyed look at tradition, fame, faith, and the grand performance of womanhood."

As I mentioned, this is not my genre. So, I decided to go with my usual, mark the words in red and then find another word ... well, I discovered that I read a lot of books with the word Year in its title, so that's the way I went this month.


Fo, Dario "My First Seven Years (Plus a Few More)" (I: Il Paese dei Mezaràt: I miei primi sette anni (e qualcuno in più) - 2004

García Márquez, Gabriel "One Hundred Years of Solitude" (E: Cien años de soledad) - 1967 

Geti, Monica "The Year of Sunshine" - 2004

Irving, John "A Widow for One Year" - 1998

The connection between the first and the last book? Easy this time, the titles all contain the word YEAR.

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Friday, 3 July 2026

Spell the Month in Books ~ July 2026

 

I found this on one of the blogs I follow, Books are the New Black who found it at One Book More. It was originally created by Reviews from the Stacks, and the idea is to spell the month using the first letter of book titles.

July: First Names 

Jana is still on maternity leave, so we can choose our own topics. That's especially good if you come across a letter that doesn't show up so often. ;)

JULY
J
JCO's novels are always full of suspense, full of psychological meanings, full of interpersonal relationships. This novel is clever as always. The story is twisted and you can't wait for it to come all together, can't wait for the end.
U
Stowe, Harriet Beecher "Uncle Tom’s Cabin" - 1852
This is one of the most tragic stories I have ever read. As with other classic stories, I had heard about the content, I knew what was going to happen to Uncle Tom, I knew what happened to slaves, how they were sold and tortured, how they would sell spouses and children away from their families. But it's tragic every time again, especially if you put a name to the people involved, if they are described in such a way that they come alive on the paper.
L
Kästner, Erich "Lisa and Lottie" (aka The Parent Trap) (GE: Das doppelte Lottchen) - 1949
Lisa is a spoiled brat and lives with her single father in Vienna. When she is nine years old, she is sent to a summer camp in Northern Germany. There, she discovers that she seems to have a lookalike. ...
Sounds familiar? I guess almost everyone has watched the movie called "The Parent Trap".
Y
Singer, Isaac Bashevis "Yentl, the Yeshiva Boy" (Yidd: נטל בחור ישיבה/Yenṭl der Yeshive-boḥer) - 1983
Unfortunately, this is only a short story, I'm sure Nobel Prize winner Isaac B. Singer would have had more ideas to describe Yentl and her life. But, nevertheless, it is a fantastic story.

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Happy Reading!

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Thursday, 2 July 2026

#ThrowbackThursday. July 2016

These are my ThrowbackThursday reviews from July 2016
A story about a childhood in the early 19th century, not a poor family, but also not a particularly wealthy one. You might want to call them middle class nowadays.
There is a lot in this book about the education at the time but it is also a great story about a family relationship. 

Grossman, David "The Zig Zag Kid" (Hebr.: יש ילדים זיגזג/Jesh Jeladim) - 1994
A fascinating story about a boy growing up and finding his way, finding answers to so many questions he didn't even know he had. Nonno, the zig zag kid, the kid that is different from other kids, and not only because his mother died when he was little.

Most of the books by Joyce Carol Oates are not happy books about happy people. They are real books about real people.
Like here. It's fascinating how she manages again and again to get into people's brains, how to explain to us how others think, what their ideas are, their conviction. Her grasp of language is just as great as her empathies.

Perkins, Sue "Spectacles" - 2015
Sue Perkins is one of my favourite comedians. She is witty, she is funny, she is smart, she is kind, there is nothing about her not to love.
I was not surprised that I liked the book but I can honestly say that I think Sue Perkins is also a great writer, she can tell a story on the page as if you are right there. You have the feeling, she is sitting there right next to you and you can hear her voice.

Sendak, Maurice "Where The Wild Things Are" - 1963
I think everyone born after the year 1960 must have had this book read to them when they were little.
The story reminds me a lot of the fairy tales we used to listen to and read when we were little. This story is IS a fairy tale, even though it wasn't written at the times of the Brothers Grimm.

Shakespeare, William "Macbeth" (aka The Scottish Play) - 1599/1606 
I still believe plays should be seen and not read but since I don't have the Globe around the corner, this will have to do for the time-being.
The characters in this play are magnificent. There is a strong woman who influences her husband and thereby history.

Wednesday, 1 July 2026

Happy July!

    Happy July to all my Friends and Readers
New Calendar picture with this
beautiful watercolour painting by Frank Koebsch
"The Small Copper Butterfly's Play of Colours"
"Farbspiel des Kleinen Feuerfalters"
 Frank says to this picture:
"Für das Kalenderblatt Juli haben wir ein Schmetterlingsaquarell ausgewählt. Das Bild zeigt eine Szene mit einem Feuerfalter auf den Blüten des Rainfarns."
"For the July calendar page, we have selected a watercolour painting of a butterfly. The image depicts a scene featuring a small copper butterfly on the blossoms of a tansy plant."

Such a cute picture, don't you think. And it shows the yellow of the sun that we have every day at the moment.

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I wrote last month, that I had been ill for several weeks. I am getting better, the worst part is over, only a few little ailments stay behind.
However, my illness foreshadowed an even worse event. My brother passed away after battling a brain tumour for three years. We will all miss him tremendously.

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For the German word of the month, I will repeat one that I used earlier in a post. It is used used to refer to general disorder or a jumble. 
"Kuddelmuddel". 

I was trying to find the origin of the word but it is not totally clear. It's assumed to be from Low German origin. "Muddeln" means something like "mud" or "muck" (Modder in low German).

Wikipedia tells us: "The onomatopoeic compound 'Kuddelmuddel' most likely spread from Berlin in the mid-19th century." They even mention my favourite author, Thomas Mann who, like me, spoke Low German, and used this word in his novella "The Transposed Heads" (Die vertauschten Köpfe) which I should probably read.

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Since I have not read any great books this month, I will go back to Thomas Mann and one of my favourite books ever: Buddenbrooks: The Decline of a Family. I really recommend it.

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* You can also have a look under my labels Artist: Frank Koebsch and Artist: Hanka Koebsch where you can find all my posts about the two artists. 

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☀️😎 I wish you all a very Happy July! 😎☀️